Aurora Tantra
Individual Client Agreement
The Nature of the Work
I offer conscious sexuality and embodied relational sessions.
This work may include reflective dialogue, guided somatic practices, relaxation, sensual massage and therapeutic exploration of intimacy, pleasure and emotional process.
Sessions are tailored to your intention and may range from deeply relaxing and nurturing experiences to more focused emotional or trauma-informed work.
All sessions are held within clear professional boundaries.
This work supports nervous system regulation, embodiment and relational awareness. It is not medical treatment, psychotherapy or commercial sexual service.
Scope of Intimate Touch
Intimate touch is never assumed.
Where relevant to your intention, sessions may include genital or anal touch, externally or internally. Any intimate touch is discussed and clearly agreed before the session begins.
Internal touch is always client-directed. You guide pressure, pace and positioning throughout.
Internal prostate massage is not offered.
Appropriate hygiene protocols are used for all intimate work.
I reserve the right to decline or discontinue any aspect of touch if I consider it outside my professional scope or not in alignment with safety.
Professional Boundaries
I remain clothed during sessions.
Erotic touch of me is not permitted.
Limited, clothed, non-sexual touch of me may occur within Sexual Sovereignty sessions for structured educational purposes. These exercises are brief, clearly defined and non-erotic in nature.
I am not acting as a surrogate partner and I will not enter into sexual, romantic or personal relationships with clients.
Consent and Responsibility
This work can be powerful and may bring up emotional material as well as pleasure and relaxation.
You are encouraged to communicate openly about your boundaries, desires and physical comfort throughout. Consent is ongoing and may be withdrawn at any time.
You are responsible for informing me of any relevant physical or mental health conditions and for attending sessions in a clear and sober state.
Confidentiality
All sessions are confidential except where:
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There is risk of serious harm to yourself or others
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Disclosure relates to terrorism, money laundering or drug trafficking
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Discussion occurs within professional supervision (without identifying you)
If we encounter one another in public, I will not acknowledge you unless you choose to acknowledge me first.
Data Protection and Professional Practice
Client records are stored securely and handled in accordance with UK GDPR. I am registered with the Information Commissioner’s Office (ICO).
Full details of how your data is collected, stored and processed can be found in my Privacy Policy on my website.
I am trained in Transformational Tantra Massage (TTM). I undertake regular professional supervision and continuing professional development to support safe and ethical practice.
Payments and Cancellations
Payment methods are agreed at booking.
My preferred method is via bank transfer.
Cancellation will incur a fee unless it is a genuine emergency.
Between 0 and 24 hours notice of cancellation or rearrangement,
the full session fee is payable.
Between 24 and 48 hours notice of cancellation or rearrangement,
50% of the session fee is payable.
These charges will need to be settled before another appointment will be offered.
If I need to cancel a session for an unforeseeable reason I will endeavour to give you a minimum of 48 hours notice and offer an alternative arrangement, however this may not always be possible, for example in the event of illness or emergency.
Late Arrivals
Session start times are fixed upon booking.
I make myself available to you at this time, for the agreed duration and you will be charged from the agreed start time, whether or not you are present.
I will wait for you for a maximum of 20 minutes (in-person) or 15 minutes (virtual),
at which point the session will not go ahead and you will be charged in full.
Ongoing Support and Referrals
I offer you an opportunity for deeper reflection a few days after our session. This is often done by email but phone/video calls are available on request. If our session has touched you deeply please do reach out if you need additional support.
If at any time I feel that I can no longer help you or that I am not the most appropriate person to help you, I will offer to refer you to someone who can.
Respect
I offer authentic tantric healing for those who are ready to embrace personal transformation.
This is a deeply personal spiritual path.
Please respect the nature of my work by refraining from making requests for explicit sexual experiences.
I reserve the right to terminate a session if you attend under the influence of drugs, alcohol or any other substance, if you breach my personal boundaries or if feel a lack of respect or personal safety.
Physical and Technical Requirements for Virtual Sessions
Minimum requirements are:
• A stable internet connection and confidence using video calls.
• A laptop, tablet or similar device positioned so that I can clearly see each participant's head and shoulders, allowing you to remain hands-free where appropriate.
• A private space where you will not be disturbed and can participate openly and confidentially.
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Couples may attend sessions from the same location or from separate locations.
Both partners must be visible on camera throughout the session unless otherwise agreed in advance.
Sessions will not be recorded by either party without prior written agreement.
If you join a session from a car, public space, or any environment that does not provide adequate privacy, safety or confidentiality, the session may be terminated and the full session fee will remain payable.
My Commitment to Working Safely Online
I only use online platforms that conform to privacy and quality standards for healthcare digital communications.
My laptop is secured with up to date virus protection, firewalls and is password protected.
My space is private and confidential space and I have taken steps to ensure that we will not be interrupted.
We will agree a back-up method of communication should either of us experience technical difficulties.
In return I expect the following from you:
I ask that you do not terminate the session abruptly before the agreed end time.
If you wish to end the session early please make me aware. If you fail to do so, I will endeavour to contact you via our back-up method to assure myself of your safety.
Couples Agreement
The Nature of the Work
I offer online couples sessions that support connection, communication, intimacy and relational awareness.
This work may include reflective dialogue, guided exercises, embodied awareness practices, consent and communication skills, and exploration of relationship patterns, needs and challenges.
Sessions are tailored to your intentions as a couple and may range from practical relationship education and skill-building to deeper exploration of emotional, relational or intimacy-related concerns.
All sessions are held online and within clear professional boundaries.
This work supports self-awareness, relational awareness, personal responsibility and conscious relating. It is not psychotherapy, couples counselling, medical treatment, crisis intervention or a commercial sexual service.
Where appropriate, I may recommend alternative or additional support from a suitably qualified professional.
Professional Boundaries
I maintain clear professional boundaries at all times.
Sessions are educational and supportive in nature and take place online via video call.
I am not acting as a psychotherapist, surrogate partner, legal advisor or medical practitioner.
I will not enter into sexual, romantic, social or business relationships with current clients.
The focus of our work is to support greater self-awareness, relational awareness and conscious relating. My role is to support the relationship and the growth of both partners. I do not act as an advocate for either individual.
Consent and Responsibility
This work can be insightful and transformative and may bring awareness to relationship patterns, emotions, needs, challenges and areas of growth.
Each partner remains responsible for their own choices, boundaries, emotions and participation in the process. You are encouraged to communicate openly and honestly throughout our work together.
Consent is ongoing and may be withdrawn at any time.
You are responsible for informing me of any relevant physical or mental health conditions and for attending sessions in a clear and sober state.
Confidentiality
All sessions are confidential except where:
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There is risk of serious harm to yourself or others
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Disclosure relates to terrorism, money laundering or drug trafficking
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Discussion occurs within professional supervision (without identifying you)
As this work involves two partners, you are encouraged to discuss and agree what will be shared within our sessions, and how this information will be treated outside of the session space. Respecting one another's privacy, vulnerability and boundaries helps to create a safe environment for open and honest exploration.
If we encounter one another in public, I will not acknowledge you unless you choose to acknowledge me first.
Data Protection and Professional Practice
Client records are stored securely and handled in accordance with UK GDPR. I am registered with the Information Commissioner’s Office (ICO).
Full details of how your data is collected, stored and processed can be found in my Privacy Policy on my website.
I am trained in Transformational Tantra Massage (TTM), counselling skills, embodiment and conscious relating approaches relevant to this work. I undertake regular professional supervision and continuing professional development to support safe and ethical practice.
Six-Session Journey
The introductory session and the six-session journey are offered as separate options.
The introductory session is designed to help couples explore whether this approach feels right for them and to gain value as a standalone experience.
The six-session journey is a structured programme intended to support deeper learning, practice and integration over time. The programme fee applies regardless of any previous introductory sessions attended and is not reduced by the cost of prior sessions.
Payment and Cancellations
Payment methods are agreed at the time of booking.
My preferred method is via bank transfer.
Cancellation will incur a fee unless it is a genuine emergency.
Between 0 and 24 hours notice of cancellation or rearrangement,
the full session fee is payable.
Between 24 and 48 hours notice of cancellation or rearrangement,
50% of the session fee is payable.
These charges will need to be settled before another appointment will be offered.
If I need to cancel a session for an unforeseeable reason I will endeavour to give you a minimum of 48 hours notice and offer an alternative arrangement, however this may not always be possible, for example in the event of illness or emergency.
Late Arrivals
Session start times are fixed upon booking.
I make myself available to you at this time, for the agreed duration and you will be charged from the agreed start time, whether or not you are present.
I will wait for you for a maximum of 15 minutes, at which point the session will not go ahead and you will be charged in full.
Ongoing Support and Referrals
I may, at my discretion, provide brief follow-up communication between sessions where appropriate. This service does not include ongoing coaching, crisis support or therapeutic support between appointments.
As this is couples work, I do not hold relationship-relevant secrets. Information shared with me privately by one partner that is directly relevant to the relationship or to our work together may need to be brought into the shared session space.
Wherever possible, I will encourage the information to be shared directly by the person concerned, encouraging openness and direct communication.
If at any time I believe that I am no longer the most appropriate person to support you, or that another form of support would better meet your needs, I reserve the right to pause or discontinue our work and may recommend alternative services or suitably qualified professionals.
Commitment
Working together has the potential to be a deeply insightful and transformational process.
Meaningful change within a relationship often requires awareness, honesty, practice and time for integration.
Whilst couples may choose to attend a single introductory session, I generally recommend committing to the full six-session journey where possible. This allows space for new skills, perspectives and ways of relating to be explored, practised and integrated between sessions.
You will get out of this work what you put into it.
It requires openness, honesty, personal responsibility and a willingness to learn, grow and engage with the process, both individually and as a couple.
In return, I offer my commitment, professional integrity, honesty and respect for each of you and for your relationship.
Respect
I offer authentic tantric healing for those who are ready to embrace personal transformation.
This is a deeply personal spiritual path.
Please respect the nature of my work by refraining from making requests for explicit sexual experiences.
I reserve the right to terminate a session if you attend under the influence of drugs, alcohol or any other substance, if you breach my personal boundaries or if feel a lack of respect or personal safety.
