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FREQUESTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Prices, My Boundaries and Your Questions Answered

Q.

How much do you Charge?

TANTRA MASSAGE, PLEASURE THERAPY and SEXUAL COUNSELLING

My Standard Hourly rate is £65 for individuals.

CONNECT

My Standard Hourly rate is £85 for couples.

VIRTUAL TANTRA

Sessions are 1.5 hours and cost £75

CONSCIOUS CUDDLES

My Standard Hourly rate is £50 for an hour.

All prices are for sessions taking place at my home.

Mobile sessions are available at an additional cost.

Sunday Appointments are charged at Time and a Half.

Q.

Do you offer a Sliding Payment Scale?

Yes. I am passionate about making my sessions as accessible as

possible. 

A limited number of sessions are available with me at a concessionary rate of £50 per hour for those with limited means. 

Concessionary rates are not available for NIGHTS sessions.

I am open to barter and exchange, but this does not include exchange of sexual services. 

(Examples of services I am open to receiving are website design, accounting, mechanics, joinery, gardening, hairdressing and cooking amongst others.)

 

I also offer the option of paying more from the heart.

Your generosity helps me to continue to offer subsidised sessions to those who are less abundant right now.

Q.

How long are your Sessions?

CONSCIOUS CUDDLES ~  1 HOUR

SEXUAL COUNSELLING ~ 1 HOUR

VIRTUAL TANTRA - 1.5 HOURS

TANTRA MASSAGE, PLEASURE THERAPY and CONNECT  ~  2 to 3 HOURS

NIGHTS - 4 or 8 HOURS

Q.

Do you offer Same or Next day appointments

No.

 

I kindly request 7 days notice for all in-person sessions. 

VIRTUAL SESSIONS MAY BE BOOKED WITH 48 HOURS NOTICE.

Q

What is your availability

In-person appointments are available 7 days a week at either 10am or 2pm.

Conscious Cuddle appointments are available between 7am and 7pm

Sexual Counselling appointments are available between 10am and 7pm

Virtual Tantra appointments are available between 10am and 10pm

ONLINE BOOKING COMING SOON

Q

Do you offer evening appointments?

Early Evenings appointments are available for conscious cuddle clients

Sessions after 7pm are reserved for Virtual clients only.

Q

Where do Appointments Take Place?

In-person sessions take place at my home in Congleton, Cheshire.

My address will be provided upon paying a deposit.

Mobile sessions are available on request.

I recommend that couples CONNECT sessions take place at your home as this allows for a smoother integration.

Q

How can I get in touch with you?

MY OFFICE HOURS ARE TUESDAY TO FRIDAY 10AM- 5PM

 

Outside of these times my phone is switched off.

During this time I may be with clients but I will be happy to take your call if I can.

I offer bookable slots in my diary each week so you can arrange to speak to me either over the phone or on Zoom.

You are welcome to email me anytime. I check emails more regularly than my phone.

I am committed to respecting my feminine cycle so there will be times of the month where I am less easy to reach.

 

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What is your onboarding process for in-person sessions?

Due to the personal nature of this work I have a formal intake process in place to protect both myself and my clients.

I insist on us having a Discovery Call before I will accept a booking. This may be over the phone or Zoom, it may be pre-arranged or ad, hoc but the opportunity to connect our energy in this way is really important for establishing a sense of mutual safety and respect.

After we have had a chat I will send you an email with my Terms of Business and a Personal details form. Depending on the offering, you may be invited to complete a Supplementary Questionnaire.

Consent forms will be talked through and agreed in our first session.

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What is your onboarding process for virtual sessions?

I insist on us having a Discovery Call before I will accept a booking. This may be over the phone or Zoom, it may be pre-arranged or ad, hoc but the opportunity to connect our energy in this way is really important for establishing a sense of mutual safety and respect.

After we have had a chat I will send you an email with my Terms of Business and a Personal details form and an Informed Consent Form.

These documents must be signed and completed prior to your first virtual session.

Q

Am I allowed to touch you?

TANTRA MASSAGE - No. Only one-way touch is permitted.

 

My Sessions are designed to give you an experience of fully receiving without having to do anything or give anything back to another. You can sink in and enjoy.

The only exception to this is if we engage in coaching around the Wheel of Consent where two-way touch may be allowed on an educational basis.  

NIGHTS - Yes. Two-way touch is permitted.

Q

Do you offer Naturist Massage?

No.  I remain fully-clothed in TANTRA MASSAGE sessions.

In line with my training, my sessions are designed to turn your attention inwards to your own sensations and experience rather than to external stimuli.

Q

Do I have to take my clothes off?

For some sessions you may be fully clothed, for others you are invited to be naked. I will offer you options to ensure that you are always in choice.

Q

Is it Hygienic?

I follow a strict hygiene protocol that minimises the risk of the spreading of infection.

This includes the wearing of surgical gloves for genital touch.

 

This was mandated by my training provider and meets the professional standards of ASIS.

 

Q

What about STI's?

I ask that you disclose your current sexual health on my intake form.

I undertake regular sexual health screenings.

My hygiene protocol and the wearing of surgical gloves for genital touch in particular minimises the risk of the transmission of infection.

Q

Is Conscious Kink the same as BDSM?

Not exactly. 

I am not a Mistress or a Dominatrix and I will not dress up.

My intention in offering these sessions is to provide education and support, either to give you the confidence to explore BDSM or to use elements from it in a conscious way for your healing.

I only work with clients who have a genuine desire to learn about themselves or work through past trauma.

If you are a pleasure-seeker there are other professionals who will be better placed to help you. 

 

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Is Virutal Tantra like Mutual Masturbation?

No.

My professional boundaries remain the same in virtual sessions as in person. I remain clothed and the flow of energy is from me to you.

A guidance document will be sent out to new virtual clients which clarifies my boundaries.

My intention in offering these sessions is to provide company, permission, comfort, safety and/or accountability.

 

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