FREQUESTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Prices, My Boundaries and Your Questions Answered
Q.
How much do you Charge?
SENSUAL MASSAGE, PLEASURE THERAPY and SEXUAL COUNSELLING
My Standard Hourly rate is £65 for individuals.
CONNECT
My Standard Hourly rate is £75 for couples.
VIRTUAL TANTRA
Sessions are 1.5 hours and cost £75
CONSCIOUS CUDDLES
My Standard Hourly rate is £50 for an hour.
All prices are for sessions taking place at my home.
Mobile sessions may incur a £25 surcharge to cover travel time and expenses.
Q.
What is 'Pay from the Heart'?
Most sessions with me have a minimum standard rate, but in all sessions I give of myself and you are invited to give from the heart in return.
STEP 1
After a session, perhaps a few hours, a few days or a few weeks, I invite you to notice the impact our session has had on you.
STEP 2
Feel into the value you received from our time together and if you feel called to do so, top up your contribution by way of a gift.
Payments from the heart are received with love and gratitude and contribute to the flow of abundance.
CONSCIOUS CUDDLES
These are being offered on a Pay from the Heart basis during December and January. You are requested to make a deposit payment to confirm the booking of an amount of your choosing, and after the session follow the above process.
SUNDAY SELF-PLEASURE CIRCLES
You are invited to follow the above steps after a session with me.
Q.
Do you offer a Sliding Payment Scale?
Yes. I am passionate about making my sessions as accessible as
possible.
A limited number of sessions are available with me at a concessionary rate of £50 per hour for those with limited means.
I am open to barter and exchange, but this does not include exchange of sexual services.
(Examples of services I am open to receiving are website design, accounting, mechanics, joinery, gardening, hairdressing and cooking amongst others.)
I also offer the option of paying more from the heart.
Your generosity helps me to continue to offer subsidised sessions to those who are less abundant right now.
Q.
How Long are your Sessions?
MINIMUM SESSION LENGTHS:
CONSCIOUS CUDDLES and SEXUAL COUNSELLING ~ 1 HOUR
VIRTUAL TANTRA, SENSUAL MASSAGE - 1.5 HOURS
& BIOENERGETIC THERAPY
PLEASURE THERAPY and CONNECT ~ 2 HOURS
(Evening PLEASURE THERAPY sessions may be 1.5 hours)
IMMERSIONS - 4 HOURS
Q.
Do you offer Same or Next day appointments
NO. I KINDLY REQUEST 7 DAYS NOTICE FOR IN PERSON SESSIONS.
48 HOURS NOTICE IS REQUIRED FOR VIRTUAL SESSIONS.
Bookings are not confirmed until a deposit is received.
If your deposit is not received 48 hours prior to a provisional booking it will not go ahead.
I am more flexible with Cacao and Cuddles sessions.
Q
What is your availability
I offer appointments 6 days a week, MONDAY to SATURDAY
PLEASURE THERAPY Appointments are available on weekdays between 10am and 4pm, Saturdays 2pm and 4pm.
Evening Appointments For VIRTUAL TANTRA and SEXUAL COUNSELLING are available on selected evenings between 7.30 and 9pm
CONSCIOUS CUDDLE appointments are available from 8am to 8pm for those requiring a pre or post-work visit.
SENSUAL MASSAGE outcalls available between 10am and 9pm.
Q
Where do Appointments Take Place?
In-person sessions take place at my home in Congleton, Cheshire.
My address will be provided upon payment of a deposit.
Mobile sessions are available on request.
I recommend that couples CONNECT sessions take place at your home as this allows for a smoother integration.
Q
How can I get in touch with you?
MY OFFICE HOURS are MONDAY to FRIDAY 10AM- 5PM
Outside of these times my phone is switched off.
During this time I may be with clients but I will be happy to take your call if I can.
I offer bookable slots in my diary each week so you can be sure of getting through to me, either over the phone or on Zoom.
You are welcome to email me anytime. I check emails more regularly than my phone.
I am committed to respecting my feminine cycle so there will be times of the month where I am less easy to reach.
Q
What is your onboarding process ?
Due to the personal nature of this work I have a formal intake process in place to protect both myself and my clients.
I insist on us having a Discovery Call before I will accept a booking. This may be over the phone or Zoom, it may be pre-arranged or ad, hoc but the opportunity to connect our energy in this way is really important for establishing a sense of mutual safety and respect.
After we have had a chat I will send you an email with my Terms of Business and a Personal details form. For Pleasure Therapy you will be invited to complete a Supplementary Questionnaire.
Consent forms will be talked through and agreed in our first session.
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What is your onboarding process for virtual sessions?
I insist on us having a Discovery Call before I will accept a booking. This may be over the phone or Zoom, it may be pre-arranged or ad, hoc but the opportunity to connect our energy in this way is really important for establishing a sense of mutual safety and respect.
After we have had a chat I will send you an email with my Terms of Business and a Personal details form and an Informed Consent Form.
These documents must be signed and completed prior to your first virtual session.
Q
Am I allowed to touch you?
My Sessions are designed to give you an experience of fully receiving without having to do anything or give anything back to another. You can sink in and enjoy. However as our connection develops two-way touch may be welcomed and may form part of our sessions.
Boundaries will be negotiated on an individual basis.
Q
Do you offer Naturist Massage?
No.
Pleasure Therapy involves one-way touch and I remain fully clothed.
Sensual Massage boundaries are individually negotiated.
Q
Do I have to take my clothes off?
For some sessions you may be fully clothed, for others you are invited to be naked. I will offer you options to ensure that you are always in choice.
Q
Is Conscious Kink the same as BDSM?
Not exactly.
I am not a Mistress or a Dominatrix and I will not dress up.
My intention in offering these sessions is to provide education and support, either to give you the confidence to explore BDSM or to use elements from it in a conscious way for your healing.
I only work with clients who have a genuine desire to learn about themselves or work through past trauma.
If you are a pleasure-seeker there are other professionals who will be better placed to help you.
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Is Virutal Tantra like Mutual Masturbation?
No.
My professional boundaries remain the same in virtual sessions as in person. I remain clothed and the flow of energy is from me to you.
A guidance document will be sent out to new virtual clients which clarifies my boundaries.
My intention in offering these sessions is to provide company, permission, comfort, safety and/or accountability.
As with all my sessions, if a connection develops between us more may be offered if it is by mutual agreement.