THE CONSCIOUS TOUCH
Relating Skills for the Highly Sensitive Person
~ Exclusively for Men ~
A space to explore who you are, what you want and how to cultivate a relationship that feels good.
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Here the focus is on conscious awareness, we begin in the domain of the mind, learning practices that can transform your future relationship and your life.
All sessions will be heart based and deep emotional healing may happen once your mind and body can relax.
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These sessions may include talking therapy and embodiment practices.
We will explore conscious touch practices using Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent and other authentic relating exercises.
These sessions are designed to support you to develop;
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Emotional Regulation
Resilience
Self-Awareness
Radical self-acceptance
Self-love
Self-Confidence​​
Relating Skills
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During our time together I intend that you will see yourself more clearly, uncover your authentic needs and desires and find new ways to connect to others, if this is truly what you desire. We will learn supportive practices to take you forward on your journey from avoidance or Co-dependency to Co-commitment, Co-creation and fulfillment both independently and with your chosen partner(s).
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Together we will work on;
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Balancing the inner masculine and feminine
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Recognising unhelpful or self-destructive patterns.
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Choosing life enhancing strategies and creating new patterns.
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Containment and Leading
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Control and Letting Go.
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Using the Wheel of Consent and tantra massage practices I can support you to explore your boundaries, practice communicating your needs and desires and
Learn who you truly are and what you want and need from a partner,
So you can feel brave enough to go out there and ask for it!
Feel Yourself, Know Yourself, Trust Yourself
Discover your Authentic Desires
I use the Wheel of Consent to bring awareness to the dynamics in all relational exchanges.
By separating out the giving from receiving, the doing from non-doing, we can explore the specifics of;
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~ What makes touch feel safe for you
~ What you like and what you don't
~ What gives you the most pleasure
A Safe Space To Explore Your True Nature
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There may be a way of relating that feels intriguing yet challenging for you.
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Do you want to take the lead or Do you deeply desire to be of service to another?
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Maybe you would like to be more Dominant but struggle being assertive.
Perhaps you would like to be directed and controlled but find it hard to let go.
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Working with me offers you the opportunity to consciously inhabit a role of Dom or Sub, to be both the Giver or Receiver, DO-er or non-do-er and to learn how to drop into this role fully. We will explore how to embody the values of Clarity and Integrity rather than shadow behaviour and inconsistency.
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Together we will consciously explore these newly emergent parts of you.
We can give it a test run and feel into how it works for you before you take steps to bring it into your relationship or, or connections, and without the risk of experimenting with a stranger.
Consciousness Opens A Pathway to Authentic Self Expression
​Tantra teaches us how to be fully present in the moment, aware of self and other. Rituals and communication practices create safety and allow space for more awareness to surface. It is my belief that this is what is needed to make sex feel truly fulfilling, and for kinky play to feel safe.
As a leader in a dynamic it is important to be a lighthouse in the storm and this means getting really good at Presence and Integrity.
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All sessions with me will have a healing intent.
You will be invited to explore the psychology of your kink and it's connection to your past experiences.
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When you are involved in a power dynamic, whether giving or receiving, dominating or submitting, it is important to have an awareness of the possible trauma behind your choice of role.
If you have an embodied understanding of where your desire comes allows you to differentiate between entering a dynamic that is pleasurable, constructive and healing as opposed to perpetuating a cycle of abuse.
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If we know ourselves, our boundaries and limits and we are able to communicate them in the moment, we are able to engage with others in a way that is
Expansive, Empowering and Life affirming for all involved.
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Together we will learn what your kink or chosen role does for you, how it relates to your past experiences and how embracing it may facilitate your deepest healing.
As a result of working together, you may discover a whole new way of receiving pleasure and of showing up in intimate relationships,
Or you may finally process and integrate some trauma, putting it to rest. Either way, it is my deepest intention that you feel more authentically you and more sexually fulfilled in your future connections.​
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Testimonials
Amazing experience. Holly has something that I have not come across before. I am nearly 65 and since seeing Holly I feel more alive than since I was a youngster. Thanks for everything
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Star rating *****
James ~Client (August 2025)
Holly was very welcoming and professional. She explained everything thoroughly and told me how the session would evolve although it was always with my agreement.
It was fantastic to have such an informed listener during the talking part of the session and this was followed by some illuminating touch exercises which completed a thoroughly enjoyable experience.
Thanks Holly for your guidance and understanding. I will definitely be going back to continue my journey.
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Star rating *****
Client ~Cheshire (July 2025)
