~ New ~ Sexual Vitality Pathway

The Sexual Vitality Pathway

Bringing Embodied Healing, Change and
New Possibilities of Sexual Expression
~ Exclusively for Men ~

I am passionate about creating lasting change for my clients and whilst sensual massage has many healing benefits, there is a whole lot more to tantra.

My journey has taken me to a large number of teachers and teachings in the worlds of spirituality, embodiment, communication and relating practices.

This pathway gives you access to everything I currently know as well as the amazing things I am currently learning, to create sessions that are individually tailored to you with the intention of;

Healing deeper relational wounds

Clearing troublesome patterns

Inviting deeper self reflection

Developing radical self acceptance

Cultivating self love

Developing self confidence

We all have limiting beliefs about ourselves, about sex and about relationships based on our past experiences, family and societal conditioning.

Often the messages we receive about sex and what it is to be male in a relationship come from porn or outdated ways of being, creating an unrealistic picture of sex and pressure to live up expectations and perform.

Many of us have beliefs about ourselves, our desirability and attractiveness and we can feel undeserving of the type of relationship we really want, which serves to keep us stuck in either an unfulfilling relationship, or isolated and choosing to be alone to avoid drama, rejection and emotional heartache.

Thankfully the way we Relate is Evolving.

Sex should be relaxing and enjoyable for everyone involved, and creating loving connection is how we evolve individually and collectively.

It's what we are here for.

How might the journey change you as a person?

I can only speak from my experience and those around me, but I have felt and seen these changes in others who embrace tantric healing;

~ Improvements in habitual patterns or behaviours

~ Less anxiety or avoidance of relationships or sex

~ More fulfilling sexual connection

~ A Spiritual connection and outlook on life

~ Increased self-awareness

~ Improved communication skills

~ Discernment about one's needs in a relationship

~ Discovery of new pleasure pathways

~ Openness to exploring new things

~ Openness to ideas and creativity and more energy to pursue them

~ Increased sensitivity

~ Improved self-pleasure practices

~ Acceptance of your past and who you are now

~ Improved Body confidence

~ Increased perception of beauty

~ Increased ability to perceive energy

~ Ability to create authentic connection with others

~ Find a true sense of self and improved self-worth,

~ Knowing who we are and being ok with it

~ Feeling more connected to life, others and the universe.

What does this Pathway look like?

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Stage 1 ~ Uncovering the Impact of the Past

We will begin by exploring some of your past experiences in relationships, experiences in childhood or early adulthood and any significant experiences of injury, trauma or abuse that have had a significant impact on how you show up in the world today.

We typically begin our journey in the domain of the mind before journeying into what the body is holding on to, using the technologies of;

~ Talking Therapy

~ Bridging

~ Conscious Touch

~ Relating Games

We are fundamentally rational beings, and once we recognise how the past has impacted our current reality, this can bring about deep understanding and self-compassion, helping us on our way to self-forgiveness and acceptance.

Stage 2~ Releasing and Letting Go of the Old

We hold all our experiences from this life and previous lifetimes in our physical and energetic body, Some of this will have been brought into your conscious awareness in Stage 1, but there will also be things in your unconscious that may also come up to be released.

Next we will journey in to the domains of the body and spirit to release these experiences both physically and energetically using the technologies of;

~ Reichian Bodywork

~ Bioenergetic movement

~ Trauma release exercises

~ Shamanic practices

~ Past life exploration

Releasing old stagnant energy creates space in the body for more energy to flow, allowing new energies to touch and penetrate us at new depths of our being.

Stage 3~ Opening up and Bringing in the New

Welcoming erotic energy into the space between us, we will re-program the mind and body and acclimatise to new ways of touching and relating to another that are often subtle.

This stage of our journey will be about exploring what is possible for you and finding ways of expanding those possibilities.

We will cultivate your ability to feel connected to your infinite self and the universe whilst also being fully present in your physical body. This is the basis of higher frequency sexual expression.

We will continue our journey by exploring the domains of the sex and spirit, using the technologies of;

~ Sensual Massage

~ Conscious Touch

~ Reiki

~ Tantric Connection

~ Meditation & Visualization

Having created space in our bodies, we can now allow more light in, open up to pleasure, to new possibilities, new information, inspiration and creativity. As you connect with who you really are and what your heart and sex yearn for, we may explore what turns you on and what you really really want from sex or a partner in the future, that this may become your reality.

The Journey

These stages are non-linear and we may meander between all three at different times but the general direction of travel will be from Stage 1 to 3. Throughout the journey I will be supporting you to meet your needs for touch in a way that feels safe and authentically you. We will be engaging the heart and emotional body, cultivating softening and creating an openness to connection through offering you a new experience of being human.

With so much to explore on this pathway to deep healing, I recommend 6-12 sessions.

I see this as a 12 month journey to pause, reflect, let go of the old, reconnect with your true self, open to sexual and spiritual connection and expand your horizons.

The recommended frequency is one session per month.