The first step in the intake process is to book a free 30-minute discovery call with me.
This is a requirement for all new clients requesting a Touch, Pleasure or Nights session with me,
The purpose of this call is to decide whether we are a good fit for each other, whether I am able to offer you the support that you need and to establish a sense of mutual safety.
During the call I will ask you about your current experience, your motivations for seeking out my support and your attraction to tantra. I will also explain my boundaries and way of working.
I have regular office hours but can be flexible if required, I am happy to do audio or video calls and in limited circumstances can meet in person.
If you have specific accessibility requirements about this or any other aspect of my intake process, please get in touch as I am keen to remove barriers wherever possible.
If we decide that we are a good fit for each other, I will send you my Agreement and request a deposit for your first session.
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Our First Session
Transformational Tantra Massage involves formal coaching style sessions and therefore, before commencing our work together I ask that you complete my Intake Questionnaire.
This is required for all Pleasure and Nights sessions, and is a deep dive into your sexual history and patterns. This may bring up a lot of emotions and you may require support when completing it. Please be kind to yourself and allow yourself plenty of space and time to connect with the questions.
You may need to leave it and come back to it several times or it may all come flooding out. This is all part of the therapeutic process.
If you feel that you would like some support to complete this questionnaire or share this information with me in another format, I am happy to do this together in our first session.
A shorter version of this questionnaire will be used for Touch sessions.
I am committed to working in a person-centred way so all touch will be guided by your intention and ultimate aim for seeking out this therapy.
As such, before I commence any touch we need to establish clarity of intent.
Before our first session together, a further coaching call may be required to explore the questions on the intake form in more depth, and to set an intention for our work together. This may be done virtually or in person and may be tagged on to our first massage session. This will be charged at my standard hourly rate.
This is an important requirement of the process and cannot be skipped and depending on what comes up more than one session of talking may be required.